Cinema Nouveau: The Diving Bell and the Butterfly

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A couple of us are going to see this movie on Sunday 6 April 2008.

We are meeting at the Cinema Nouveau in the Waterfront at 14:30 for 15:00. If you need a lift or any more info, please send me an email before Sunday.

A brief synopsis of the movie, taken from this article:

“…the film tells the story of Bauby, the onetime editor-in-chief of Elle France who suffered a stroke that rendered him paralyzed except for his left eye. He learned to communicate via a series of blinks that represented letters of the alphabet and dictated his memoir in that fashion. ” - Variety.com,

More info:

Tue. 25 March: ADHD/ADD by Dr John F Demartini

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A couple of us will be attending this. Please let us know if you are interested too & we can all go together.

Attention Surplus Order (AS0)
Tackling ADHD/ADD and Learning ‘Difficulties’ From the Inside Out

We are quick to apply labels and prescribe medicine but is it possible that there may be a different way in which to deal with learning difficulties such as ADHD/ADD?

If a child has attention deficit disorder then how is it possible that they can sit in front of a television for hours on end playing video games focused, or with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder they can play sports focused and are able to function at optimal performance? What if we discovered how to re-structure our communication to tap into their value system and we discovered that the child previously switched off becomes switched on, focused and driven?

VENUE:

Atlantic Imbizo Conference Centre
Above Nu Metro, V&A Waterfront

DATE:

Tuesday, 25 March 2008

TIME:

6:30 for 7:00pm

COST:

R180 per person

RSVP:

Computicket on 083 915 8000
or visit:
http://www.computicket.com

A dedicated venue! Many thanks to Vista Nova school

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Since we started our meetings, we have been hopping from venue to venue, trying to find a place that wouldn’t mind hosting us. We finally found a spot which we can use everytime now, in the future.

Many thanks to Visa Nova primary school for allowing us to meet in their lovely upstairs meeting room. It is spacious, sunny, has a kitchen, lots of wall space for future videos & presentations and a wonderful happy feeling to it. I know we will have many good meetings there.

The address is: 6 Arundel Road, Rondebosch

The school is right across the Rondebosch Common. Entrance is from Arundel Road, though and you can park inside the premises. If it is your first time, please let us know (adi@aspie.co.za) or come early so that someone can show you where the venue is on the premises.

A map:

Map to Vista Nova

Quotes

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I’m adding these as I find them. Please feel free to put more in the comments section!

“It is important to keep in mind that any educational intervention should be aimed at the acquisition of skills, not trying to enforce an arbitrary standard of normalcy. Efforts should not be aimed at the undesirable and impossible goal of trying to make autistic individuals non-autistic. Instead, education should be aimed at addressing the significant disabilities many of us face with the goal of improving quality of life. ” Ari Ne’emam

“The primary goal of intervention is to enable children to form a sense of their own personhood.” Stanley I. Greenspan  

“Education is the kindling of a flame, not the filling of a vessel.” Socrates

Don’t pity me or try to cure or change me. If you could live in my head for just one day, you might weep at how much beauty I perceive in the world with my exquisite senses. I would not trade one small bit of that beauty, as overwhelming and powerful as it can be, for “normalcy.” Anonymous

“A person who is broken becomes whole partially because the people around her decide that she is.” Joss Whedon

“If love is deep, much can be accomplished.” - Shinichi Suzuki

“Who the heck cares about hand-flapping when we should all care about having our kids included in our communities?” - Estee Klar

“It seems that for success in science and art a dash of autism is essential.”– Hans Asperger
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If a man knows more than others, he becomes lonely.
Loneliness does not come from having no people about one,
but from being unable to communicate to others the things that seem important to oneself,
or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible. - Carl Jung
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“Instead of attributing all difficulties in communication to the autistic person’s inability to speak your language,
why not embark on the adventure of working with the autistic person
to learn to understand each other’s languages? - Jim Sinclair
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“Autistic empathy is different from what the typical person experiences. It is no less real, no less deep or emotional.
And I would argue that it’s no less useful to society. Some people give hugs; others get the tissue.
Otherwise you end up with people blowing their noses on their sleeves, which is unbecoming and very untidy.”
- Asperger Square 8
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“Think of an absentminded professor who can find a cure for cancer but not his glasses in the mess on his desk.
These are the inventors, creators, poets - the people who think creative thoughts
because they don’t think like everyone else.” - Martha Denckla
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“How many of the emotional and social problems autistic
people have are actually related to being autistic?” – Amanda Baggs
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“It was always very hard for me to judge whether a person was sad or happy - just as hard as it would be to judge whether this glass is smiling or sulking. If you can’t perceive that, you end up living in a world in which you hardly realize that other people exist. I lived for myself in a world full of glasses of water. Today I live in a world of water glasses where I can recognize whether those glasses are smiling or sulking.” –Axel Brauns
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“From my clinical experience I consider that children and adults with Aspergers Syndrome
have a different, not defective, way of thinking. ” – Tony Attwood
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“The significant problems we face cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.“
- Albert Einstein
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“While they take money to create a world without us in it,
we don’t get funding to assist us to live in the world as it is.” – Amanda Baggs
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“It may be that the social deficits which are the cornerstone of an autism spectrum diagnosis tell us far more about the person who made them markers for such a diagnosis than about the child whom he observes.
- Lucy Blackman
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When I do an equipment simulation in my imagination or work on an engineering problem, it is like seeing it on a videotape in my mind. I can view it from any angle, placing myself above or below the equipment and rotating it at the same time. I don’t need a fancy graphics program that can produce three-dimensional design simulations. I can do it better and faster in my head..”
Temple Grandin – Thinking in Pictures
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“Eagerness to be like others didn’t make Pinocchio real — it turned him into a donkey! And eagerness by parents to cure autism or retardation or compulsiveness will not drive great distances toward the final solution to the actual problem.
Because the person who believes “I will be real when I am normal,” will always be almost a person, but will never make it all the way.
- Eugene Marcus
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“In terms of work I’ve always had a Bad Attitude in that I won’t work anywhere which requires me to work strict hours or follow a dress code. I don’t know if that’s an Asperger’s thing or not,
I think it’s just being reasonable.” - Bram Cohen
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“If I did not have my work, I would not have any life.” – Temple Grandin
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“Nothing about us without us” – Human rights slogan
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When autistic adults - all of us, not just some of us - get to live good lives,
it benefits autistic children, who will have one more possibility of conceptualizing themselves as having a future.
When autistic children - all of them, not just some of them - have hope for their future
beyond just a ‘cure’, it benefits future autistic adults.” - Amanda Baggs

Aspergers and other ASD resources on the web

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Tools on the web:

Examples of excellent blogs related to Asperger’s:

Examples of articles related to Asperger’s and ASD on Wikipedia:

Asperger Communities & Discussion Forums:

Examples of videos related to Asperger’s & other ASD:

Tony Attwood’s site: http://www.tonyattwood.com.au

Books on Asperger’s: http://www.google.com/search?q=site:amazon.com+aspergers (Click on “Look Inside”)

Tips on searching effectively on Google:

  • Use inverted commas e.g:
    aspergers “Cape Town“
  • Use site: to specify a specific site only, e.g:
    aspergers site:youtube.com
  • Use define for a dictionary definition, e.g:
    define eugenics
  • Use – to exclude certain terms, e.g.:
    asperger doctorate -hans

The Autistic Rights Movement:

Temple Grandin:

The Autism Speaks controversy:

Online questionnaires:

South African websites (to be amended):

 

Minutes of 17 March meeting

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Meeting minutes of The Wallpapering Society

Meeting #2

Date:                     17 March 2008
Place:                     Jana’s practise in Rosebank
# of Attendees:    5 AS
Topic:                   Presentation on Asperger’s and other ASD resources on the Web

This was a type of trial presentation of the topic before it gets presented to our sister group, ASCON as well as hopefully in April at the Autism Awareness event at Herschel. More about that closer to the time.

Adi will post a separate entry with links to all the pages and videos discussed.

We ran out of time! So, the next meeting agenda was not discussed and we’ll confirm it with members via email. As soon as we decided a topic, it will be communicated on the blog.

The next meeting will be on 31 March, 19:00 for 19:30 at Vista Nova primary school, just opposite the Rondebosch Common. Park around the back - we’ll wait there to guide everyone to the right location. Map etc. to follow soon.

Hope to see you all there.
Remember if you have not attended before, please contact us first to confirm attendance. Thank you very much.

Map to Jana Forrester’s practise

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Jana's practise

Next meeting: Monday 17 March

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Our next meeting will be Monday 17 March at 19:00 for 19:30 at Jana Forrester’s practice in Rosebank.

We will have a presentation and discussion on Asperger’s resources: Books & the Web. Feel free to bring your books and good website url’s along!

Please confirm attendance with us if you have never been before.

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19:00 Arrive, coffee & check-in
19:30 Asperger’s books discussion
20:00 Asperger’s resources on the web
20:45 Discuss
21:15 Formalise next meeting agenda & close
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21:30 Wallpapering & other post meeting activities
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Minutes of 5 March meeting

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Meeting minutes: 5 March 2008 (Kick-off)

These are the minutes of the Adults with Asperger’s group kick-off meeting. Until further notice, this group will be referred to as “The Wallpapering Society”.

Attendees

Our first meeting was attended by six people, five of which are on the spectrum.

How often?

Meetings: every second Monday, 19:00 for 19:30 - 21:00 or later
Outings: whenever we have a good idea and can organise it!

  • It is completely optional to attend as many or few meetings as a member wishes
  • It is the attendee’s choice whether they would like to participate in discussions or not - staying in the background and/or fiddling with stuff instead of listening/talking is good too

Where?

We are currently trying to find a fixed spot, investigating and negotiating among the following options:

  • Jana Forrester’s practise in Rosebank
  • Vera school in Rondebosch East
  • Vista Nova school, across the Rondebosch Common, next to the Red Cross Hospital
  • A member’s house
  • UCT
  • EDWC in Newlands, across Barristers
  • Any other spot in the Southern Suburbs that allows up to 20 people, twice a month without a fee

Who is invited?

Adults on the autistic spectrum.

We recommend that anyone that is still unsure of their diagnosis first get in touch with a specialist psychologist (e.g. Jana Forrester) or attend some of the ASCON meetings first.

Why do we meet?

1. To develop a sense of community

  • So that no one with Asperger’s in Cape Town ever feels alone
  • To grow a circle of 24/7 support consisting of individual members of the group
  • To allow online support, contact details and communication via the blog and website on aspie.co.za
  • To provide a fixed group meeting twice a month as a stable base to function from
  • To provide a space where individuals on the spectrum are allowed to just be themselves, fit in without effort and have the freedom to learn and discuss life, the universe and everything; to breathe freely and experience no judgement for who they are, with no pressure and effort: just being and knowing there is a true sense of belonging
  • To, during tough times, give a member the space where there is just enough of a break to catch their breath and go on again

2. To learn from one another

  • Get different perspectives of the meaning and impact of having Asperger’s
  • Get tips on how to deal with daily life?
  • To find our purpose and value in life

3. To make friends

  • Have events “out there” as a group, around challenging and stimulating fields of interests, exploring the world through one another’s eyes
  • Find people that share your special interests, either within the aspie community or by linking up with people we know
  • Learn how to be together as a group of individuals, and really like and care for one another in time

What are we going to do?

- Outings (Wine lab, Habitat for Humanity - more suggestions welcome)
- Talks on common interests & hobbies (everyone gets chance to choose a topic)
- Workshops
- Discuss personal life & events
- Camping & Hiking

Our next meeting is: Monday 17 March 2008, 19:00 - 21:00 @ Jana Forrester’s practise in Rosebank. Hope to see you there.

Remember if you have not attended before, please contact us first to confirm attendance. Thank you very much.

Next meeting: 5 March

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Our next meeting is:

Wednesday 5 March, 19:30 - 21:30
EMDC Central, Newlands Office
Corner of Main Street and Kildare Road (Right across the road from Barristers)

If anyone needs a lift, please email Adi .

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19:30 Arrive, welcome & coffee
19:45 Introductions
20:00 Group kick-off logistics

  • How often?
  • Where?
  • Who is invited?
  • Why do we meet?
  • What do we do?
  • How do we keep in touch?
  • A name for the group
  • Official/unofficial roles (e.g. chairperson, librarian, webmaster etc.)
  • Possible future events (Sensory workshop, talks, outings etc.)

21:15 Formalise next meeting agenda

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