Two aspie girls making it big time

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On a much happier note than the previous post, I just got alerted by a friend who is a music expert, about LadyHawke, aka Pip Brown, making it big in the music world. From the other part of the southern hemisphere from us, allow me to introduce a fascinating and talented musician: Asperger’s, allergies and aubergines.

I’ll try and get hold of a CD and get back to you, but if it’s good enough for Kylie Minogue and Courtney Love, it’s good enough for me.

Then, another lady rocking the world in a different way is Evan Delaney Rodgers who I was introduced to by ASAN’s newsletter. Allow me to introduce the youngest candidate for Carlsbad City Council and probably the first to ever specifically ask her supporters NOT to send her money: Candidate wears her difference with pride.

Well, I know who has my vote.

With the paralympics in full swing, I see inspiring images every day of people who defy their disabilities and just rise to physical and spiritual heights in their lifetimes. With Asperger’s being a mostly invisible disability, sometimes all people see is the social akwardness and whatever else a specific aspie displays and they forget the immense challenges that we overcome every day, to do what others do naturally. I therefore want to hail these ladies as equally inspirational and phenomenal in not only coping with daily life but being superstars in their respective fields. You are paving the way for breaking all the myths and boundaries that seems to settle in with an autism diagnosis and showing what can be done with the right circumstances.

If we only had an Aulympics…

Presentation on web resources

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I did a presentation on web resources for Aspergers last week at ASCON (ASpergers CONnections), a support group for parents and partners. I attached it here: ASDPresentation_2.

If you need more information about ASCON please contact Avril Meaker at ameaker@telkomsa.net or Jana Forrester at janafor@telkomsa.net.

Another gem of a website

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Autism neighbourhood, a source of videos about autism with a positive attitude.

http://www.autismneighborhood.org

Jail4Bail: a shameful image of autism

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“How we talk about autism—how we talk about autistic persons—directly impacts on how the public, how people, think about autism, and how they perceive and act towards autistic persons.” – Autism Vox

Please note that I do support fundraising campaigns for autism if their purpose is to better the life of autistic people and if they ensure that the lasting image of autism left in its participants’ minds furthers the acceptance and inclusion of autistic people in society.

Autism Western Cape (AWC) is launching a fundraising campaign next week called Jail4Bail. The executive director of AWC would lock himself in a jail cell at a local mall until a million Rand is raised.

At first I did not give it much thought as my understanding was that part of the funds would go to a local police station and that the concept of putting him in jail would be viewed as a joke and a fun event, as it has been in other situations where the Jail4Bail idea was implemented. AWC also requested me to write an article about my daily experiences as an autistic person to use in conjunction with this event, which I gladly did.

In my naivety I never realised that in their minds, there was a direct link to the idea that either autistics are viewed as imprisoned, or that the family of an autistic person live in a jail-like environment because of autism.

This horrifying realisation came to me when I saw the first attempt at a poster for the event. It features a pre-school girl in a cell with her hands clasped around the bars and a look of fear on her face, as she stares to some unknown horror somewhere above her.

I immediately sent off an email to the director of AWC which:

  • pointed out that I am appalled and furious at the logo
  • suggested that he becomes acquainted with the recent similar Ransom Notes debacle, and included several links to insightful articles
  • requested a public apology
  • demanded that the image is pulled
  • suggested that he resigns from his position
  • asked that my article is excluded from this appalling and nauseating campaign

I further mentioned that I will make the global network of autism activists aware of this initiative, which is what I am doing here.

I got a response which rang:

“Thank you for giving me your personal opinion. Can you please tell me exactly what you find appalling and nauseating? I have retracted your article as requested. It is great that you are willing to forward the information to the global network of autism activists to help us in a developing South Africa . I hope that the global network of autism activists would give us the necessary funding to be able to provide additional schools and other service to enable our assist thousands of children, adults and their families affected by Autism. We are going ahead with the project, because we need to create awareness about Autism and we need funding to provide additional services for individual children and adults who not as fortunate as you. “

I decided not to respond to this email as the person obviously did not bother to read the articles I suggested or proofread his email before sending it through and I realised that it would be wasteful for me to try and keep speaking to a person of such lack of awareness and ignorance.

I heard the next day that AWC did decide to pull the image but replaced it with an image of an adult person behind the bars. AWC did not bother informing me of this decision; I was made aware of it by another person in the broader community in Cape Town.

The new logo now features a dismal looking adult in a dark jail cell, staring out once again to who-knows-what. At least a child was not used but the message is still unacceptable, self-pitying and totally counter-productive to the message of inclusion and acceptance.

I am further concerned that a significant portion of the AWC funds, that is meant for the improvement of the lives of autistics, has been spent on the organising of this event, which apparently has taken a resource knock of nine months, understandably leading to AWC not being prepared to call its launch into question. I have to question the length and associated cost of planning such an event, considering that there has obviously been very little research done into whether it is appropriate. I also have to question whether the time and investment cost into a fundraising event is a reason for not considering changing its theme, if it is clarified that the image portrayed is not just inappropriate but damaging to autistics.

I am surprised by their claims that they have gotten consent and indeed positive responses both locally and internationally, not just for the event theme but also the resulting poster with the child. I can only wonder who those parties were – perhaps in numbers they were sufficient but in diversity I have to assume that only like-minded individuals were approached for commentary. I can say that certainly no autistic person was approached and I question whether any of the other autistic organisations or schools for autistic learners in the Western Cape were notified, neither were any non-autistic organisations that deal with disabilities, which would have immediately pointed out the inappropriateness of AWC’s theme and image.

I am further concerned that the mind that constructed this event will be the one that is the face to the public and who will be answering questions with regards to autism, as donations are received. I do not want this one-sided, negative view of autism that is reflected in the actions of the organisation to speak for me and other autistics, of all ages – at all. And if the AWC’s message is not sympathetic towards the autistic, then what is it? Perhaps if it is only sympathetic towards the parents that see themselves as imprisoned, it should clarify its purpose and ask for donations for therapy for parents that have difficulty accepting their children as they are, or wanting to change them into different children, if only they could get sufficient funds to put them through endless behavioural therapy.

In the end, there is huge responsibility that comes with being in the position of executive director of AWC. It does not mean playing hero or martyr, or furthering your own personal agendas: it means staying in touch with what is happening in the world of autism, being educated and aware and being inclusive, of all autism related parties in the Western Cape, including autistics and other autism related organisation, even if they disagree with you.

And asking an autistic to write an article (for free) to support your event is not inclusion. It is pretend.

One has to be so careful how autism is portrayed to society. The problems that autistics face today are often more those caused by lack of acceptance and inclusion in society than the actual disabilities. If your hope is to give autistics the freedom of society one day, how can you portray it as a jail? If you want to change a perception, don’t enforce it! This is not a difficult concept to understand. How to brand your fundraising event is far too important to leave to advertising and marketing organisations and it needs much thought and mindfulness. When in doubt, just consider the Pity: It’s 100% Curable brand. That is the type of message that I would like to see at an autism fundraising event.

I can speak much more about this but bottom line is that the campaign is wrong in that it will damage the very cause it is trying to promote. Your campaign will cause damage to my image as an autistic person - no good will come to me, personally, if society sees autism as a prison that locks either the autistic person or their parents up in a situation of desperation which only a pitiful donation can make better. That prison is your prison, not mine. Go sit in it, for weeks, but don’t make it mine. I feel ashamed and violated by the theme of this campaign.

And I am your autistic daughter or son’s future voice. Whether you like it or not.

“I hope to communicate to you that, contrary to the unfortunate paradigm that has pervaded the media discourse about us, autism is not a tragedy.
We are, as with any other minority, a community with unique needs, strengths, challenges and aspirations
that are often distinct from the parent or professional voices that speak about us, without us.
The true tragedy is the persistent discrimination, abuse and lack of access that continues to govern society’s approach to us.
On this, the first ever World Autism Day, we assert that it is this prejudice – not autism itself – that we have a true interest in combating,
in the interest of ensuring for every person the rights of communication, inclusion, self-determination and respect.” Ari Ne’eman

Article: “The New Wave of Autism Rights”

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This article was published in New York magazine a few days ago and is receiving a lot of attention.

Here it is: http://nymag.com/news/features/47225/

I think it is well researched and written. I enjoyed how the author compared his interviews among all the different opinions in the world of autism to watching Wimbledon, giving him a pain in the neck. I did not enjoy him calling severe autism “ghastly” but that criticism is well echoed in the comments and other referring blogs. The sensibility and objectiveness with which the whole of the article is constructed makes up for it, in my mind. It also made me realise that I honestly do not want to be known as an activist but rather a pacifist. It’s ugly out there… with the mercury/vaccine activists fighting the genetic cure activists and both of them in a war with the autism rights activists typing powerblog entries: I wish there was a simpler, more love-filled way to dissolve the sadness that society brings to autistics, and the ugly that autism seems to bring out in people without autism.

Adi

This view is Adi’s and not necessarily a reflection of opinions held by any other members of the Wallpapering Society.

Movie outing: “I’m not there”

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Hi all

The Dylan movie “I’m not there” is showing at the Labia, so we can thankfully avoid the crowds at the Waterfront/Cavendish. And pay less.

So, please put in your diaries:

Monday 2 June @ 20:30 @ The Labia on Orange @ R25/person

I suggest we meet from 20h00 onwards in the Labia foyer.

Please remember:

  • our outings are open to friends and family members
  • to let me know if you need a lift
  • if you are having trouble paying for your ticket and the cup of coffee afterwards, you need to contact me and I’ll see if we can make a plan. On the other hand, if you can sponsor someone, also let me know (R50 or so should do it)

I hope you can all make it! :) Looking forward to it. The previews that I’ve seen have been great.

Have a lovely week,

Adi - adi@aspie.co.za

Autism Action’s event at St Cyprians

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I spoke at Autism Action’s event today, at St Cyprians School. Herewith a couple of important links:

  • We ran out of handouts (which was really cool), so here it is electronically: Handout. It includes a full copy of Jim Sinclair’s writing “Don’t Mourn For Us”, of which the original was sourced from here. He just says things much better than I ever could. More of his writings are accessible here.
  • I also attach a transcript of my speech: Progressing from A to Be.
  • If you are just starting on the journey of exploring the web, other links that I would suggest you have a look at, are available here.
  • I put some quotes on our handouts, but there are more here.

For everyone that supported me today: THANK YOU. I am available at adi@aspie.co.za if you would like to make contact.

The usual disclaimer: The speech was done in my private capacity and what I said did not necessarily reflect all members of the Wallpapering Society’s views.

Next meeting Monday 14 April: ADD vs ASO

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Our next meeting will be Monday 14 April at 19:00 for 19:30 at Vista Nova Primary School - driving instructions and a map are available here.

We will chat about an amazing presentation by Dr John F Demartini that we attended a while back, where he balanced the condition of ”Attention Deficit Disorder” with “Attention Surplus Order”, which (probably unknowingly for the speaker) tied in beautifully with the hyperfocus and special interest themes our lives are so colourfully flavoured with.

Please confirm attendance with us if you have never been before.

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19:00 Arrive, coffee & snacks

19:30 Introductions & check-in’s

20:00 Sharing session on: ADD vs ASO

21:00 Upcoming events:

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21:30 Wallpapering & other post-meeting activities, if anyone feels like it
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Next meeting: Monday 31 March

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Our next meeting will be Monday 31 March at 19:00 for 19:30 at Vista Nova Primary School - driving instructions and a map are available here.

We will chat about our group’s purpose and agenda and also have a sharing session on “Frustrations & Irritations”.

Please confirm attendance with us if you have never been before.

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Agenda
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19:00 Arrive, coffee & an optional glass of champagne to celebrate our new venue, Vista Nova!

19:30 Introductions & sharing of thoughts on: Our group’s purpose & agenda

20:00 Sharing session on: Frustrations & Irritations

21:00 Upcoming events:

  • Movie: The Diving Bell & The Butterfly
  • Vera School Media Centre
  • SciFest 2008 in Grahamstown
  • Autreat (USA) & Autscape (UK) 2008

21:15 Formalise next meeting’s agenda & close
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21:30 Wallpapering & other post-meeting activities, if anyone feels like it
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All about computers and aspie kids

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http://www.mousetrial.com/autism_software_database.php
A collection of links to publishers, developers and distributors of software that you might find useful for kids with Autism.

http://www.raisinghorizons.com/
A disability training division is devoted to developing, and offering, training materials to assist people with learning disabilities.

http://edu.kde.org
Educational Software based on the KDE technologies, open source & free, for students, parents, children, teachers, adults

 http://www.softpedia.com/
An encyclopaedia of free software downloads. Lots of educational stuff.

 http://www.inkululeko.co.za
The guys that are going to help us setup the Linux lab and assist with training, support etc. The team consists mostly of people previously associated or working at Shuttleworth’s tuxLabs project

http://www.theingots.org
The INGOT certificates provide a motivating progression route from complete beginner to professional level expertise for users of ICT in a wide range of contexts including commonly used productivity tools found in the modern workplace such as word processing, presenting and searching for information.

Change history :

 - Originall published: 23 March 2008 -

I’m currently researching what one would deploy on computers in a Linux lab at a school for kids with autism/asperger’s (all ages). I am finding the most amazing things. I need to log it somewhere as time goes by, to refer back to. So, this is very much a post-in-progress. Please feel free to comment more links (I’ll include them in the main post).

 - Updated: 31 March 2008: added a couple of very useful links that came up in Autism Western Cape’s March edition of the Spectrum News.

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